Personal confidence will make others realize that you have the ability to balance. Balance in a real way as in the way of kickboxing which maybe people said you would never be able to do, balance in the way of maintaining a house, a relationship and a school and work schedule (pretty hectic), and balance in a personal life. Balanc e is critical in all aspects and without balance health cant be found. Taking control makes one realize that balance is possible. thorugh this balance thing happen.