I want to be a strong woman. One who assures people she doesn’t need them, she wants them. I am capable of living on my own, it’s just more fun to be with people… Sometimes. Then, people prove that being a hermit is what is best. They do this in many ways from picking fights, to accusing you of doing something wrong. With these accusations trust is broken and lives are destroyed. That is, Unless both parties choose to work through the problems, working together to a common goal which enables both to have potential success.  Accusations tear people down, while believing in people lifts them up.