It is said “You are what you eat”. Rewrite the phrase “You are what you__________”
“You are what you are enthralled with”. To me, what you dwell on or obsess about, you become. Your three closest friends are determinant in who you become. You kind of become more like whomever are constantly surrounded by.
Ergo if you surround yourself with bullshit you’ll reflect this. Whereas if you surround yourself with confident, successful people, you will become more like this. So it’s really all your choice in the end. You choose your path in life and cane decide whether or not to be depressed, alone, or happy.