When a woman had a bad run of luck and finds herself in a relationship, yet things are hard so this woman is venting to you, this is not the appropriate time to suggest she leave her current relationship to be with you. It is not appropriate to suggest that youd do better for her than her current suitor. It is never appropriate to ask her who she wants more. If she had a chance to be with you and you fucked her over, then she’s not going to come back. Not if she has any self respect. And I promise you, two things she has in spades are self respect and pride. The dog may go back to its own vomit, but not this woman, this strong individual will fight to her last breath and make her mark on every situation.
I do understand this might be adequately titled ” Losing my shit, over shitheads”